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Panic - Anxiety Help

My Thoughts Page

Here you will find different thoughts and ideas on things you can do that might help you to help yourself, or at least feel less alone in your attempts to feel normal again. These thoughts and ideas come from various sources. If you have any that have helped you and would like to add them to this page, please send me an email.

A Random Thought

Sometimes I suddenly feel scared, like running and hiding, but with no visible reason for having such feelings. How terrifying to have a fight or flight feeling come on with no warning and no apparent cause.

Baby Steps

One of my tried and true techniques for combatting panic disorder, I like to call "baby steps".
It works like this:
I take any task that panic disorder makes difficult for me. For this example I will use leaving the house. [Agoraphobia (fear of the market place), is a common phobia that occurs with people that suffer from many mental disorders.]
 
I started out first with just planning to leave the house. This alone was enough to cause me to feel anxious and panicky. Enough for one day.
 
The next day I actually open the door and step outside. I stand just outside the door until my discomfort level reaches the point where I feel like I can't handle anymore. This step is done for a few days if necessary, just until standing outside the door is not a big issue.
 
The next step is to walk away from the door. It doesn't have to be far, just until I get to where I am feeling uncomfortable....then a few steps further. This step may also be repeated a couple times.
 
Each time a step gets less uncomfortable I push myself a little further. That is why I call it baby steps. Most of us learned to crawl before we learned to walk. Sometimes going back to the beginning is the best way to approach a problem. This technique can be adjusted to help overcome almost anything.
I also used it to get back to where I could drive again and to help myself to be able to ride in elevators.

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